Miscommunication

The intention might be love—but what’s heard can feel like indifference, frustration, or even attack.

In a neurodiverse relationship, miscommunication isn’t just about tone or timing—it’s about fundamentally different ways of experiencing the world.

One person may think in spirals, the other in straight lines. One may speak in metaphors, the other needs precision.

The intention might be love—but what’s heard can feel like indifference, frustration, or even attack.

We were both trying. And we were both tired.

This piece explores how miscommunication quietly erodes trust—and how slowly, carefully, we can rebuild a shared language. But it all takes time and patience.

Reflection prompt:

  • What do I most wish they understood about how I communicate?